I can’t continue with Cora’s birth story without taking a day to pause and express my deep gratitude to the people who worked so hard when I was in the hospital to make sure that I was physically healthy, and that I was as comfortable as I could be. We’ll be back to the remainder of her birth story tomorrow.
The nurses that served me while I was in the hospital made such a difference in the days and nights surrounding Cora’s delivery. They went above and beyond their job descriptions to help ease as much of the pain as they could during the darkest days we’ve walked through, and will forever help us remember our time in the hospital as one in which we were surrounded by gentle, understanding care instead of cold efficiency.
I have always respected nurses, and my job is to help nurses as they work on higher education. But, this experience gave me a whole new level of respect and admiration for your heart to serve, and for the difficulty you deal with every day. I want to thank you, for doing such important work that is easy to gloss over.
You saw me suffering, and did your best to physically ease my pain. Thank you.
You saw me cry, and took time to talk with me instead of going on to the next thing (of many) that you had to take care of. Thank you.
You spoke with me about God’s provision in times of great loss when I couldn’t sleep. Thank you.
You watched over me while the doctor tried four times to get my epidural right, reassuring me that it would be over soon. Thank you.
You held my hand while I was delivering my little girl after she died, and told me that I was doing a good job. Thank you.
You dressed my daughter after she was born, and took so much care to make sure we carried good memories of her with us for the rest of our lives. Thank you.
You took pictures as my family and I held her for the first and last time, doing your best to capture memories that we will treasure forever. Thank you.
You helped make molds of her hands and feet, of her fingers, and prints of her feet so that we could have tactile memories of her life. Thank you.
You cried after she was born too, when I couldn’t see you. Thank you.
You helped me walk to the bathroom when my legs were unsure after my epidural. Thank you.
You made a special request for the next nurse to take care of me, making sure that I was with someone kind when I was vulnerable. Thank you.
You called to check on me after your shift was over. Thank you.
You brought another bed into my room so that my husband could sleep next to me when I needed him close the most. Thank you.
You came into my room to make sure I was still alive when my pulse was in the high forties while I was sleeping. (Which I guess is normal for me.) Thank you.
You were careful to not wake me up if you didn’t have to when I was sleeping. Thank you.
You asked if I wanted bacon for breakfast, because who doesn’t like to eat bacon? Thank you.
You called the funeral home to help us make arrangements for our daughter. Thank you.
You told my family how to take care of me before I left. Thank you.
You got Mom and Husbandman caffeine before the drive home. Thank you.
You hugged me right before I left, and told me that I would be back one day to deliver a healthy baby. You made sure that my last memory at the hospital was one of encouragement. Thank you.
You checked on us after we left the hospital, and still think of us today. Thank you.
Thank you for taking care of me. Thank you for acknowledging my pain and honoring my daughter’s short life.
To nurses everywhere, thank you for the work you do. Thank you for working so hard to care for your patients physically and emotionally.
Please feel free to share this post with the nurses who have made a difference in your life.
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